Well, thanks to some persistent thinking on our Miss Cathy's part, and our "crack the whip" James, I was able to locate my Luigi Napolitano and Saveria Rovella's wedding date. And, Saveria's birthdate and mother's name.
It seems that the information has been right under my nose for the last two years and I just couldn't match it up. The info was right here all along (although there were some extraction errors which happen with this type of research)...
If thats not bad enough, the family was originally from Rende, Cosenza and Cathy had access to several of the Rende films at her family history center so last night, sick as she was, she made a trip and got me the original birth act for Saveria:
So..another surname to add to the database (which James emailed me bright and early to remind me to add it)...VOLPENTESTA!
Thanks Cathy for your help..you rock!
And thank you James for waiting up to hear the outcome last night and for keeping me on my toes. Love ya both!